A Guide to Kazakh Dating

A Guide to Kazakh Dating

If you want to meet a truly exotic beauty then you will want to try Kazakh Dating. Kazakhstan is where the East meets the West in a delightful mix that produces women who have both the long, legged beauty of Eastern European girls combined with the dark and sultry looks of Asia.

Kazakhstan lies between central Asia and Eastern Europe. It is also the 9th largest country in terms of land mass. Bordering Kazakhstan is China, Russia and Uzbekistan. It is a true melting pot which has combined to form some of the loveliest beauties on the globe.

Beautiful Kazakh Women

blue-eyed blonde Kazakh girl

The women of this region are quite beautiful, as the mix of various cultures and people from the surrounding regions within the country has led to the emergence of exotic women that have a blend of Asian and Eastern European features.

In terms of body shape and facial features your typical Kazakhstan lady is Eastern European in appearance however their hair and skin tone tend to be more oriental.  That said you can also find both blondes and brunettes, girls who are more Asiatic in appearance and those who appear more Nordic all within the borders of this country.

No matter what your preference is you will likely find your match in Kazakhstan.

Another great feature of the Kazakhstan ladies is their bodies. Thanks to a traditional diet that keeps them trim most Kazakhstan woman are trim and athletic in appearance. These are woman who have not yet been ruined by western diet or any of the other modern vices.

Women from Kazakhstan

What Are Kazakh Women Like?

One more interesting feature of Kazakhstan is its surprisingly open and liberal culture. Women from Kazakhstan are not sexually conservative and are open to the idea of casual fun. If you visit the city you may be surprised by the number of bars and clubs and active dating scene which exists.

This contrasts with some of their neighboring countries where the women tend to be much more conservative in their outlook.

Kazakhstan women are also noted for their great personalities. They tend to make excellent brides and girlfriends as they are caring and gentle by nature. If you are a genuine guy who treats his woman right then you will have no problem finding an attractive and loving partner in this country.

Kazakh Women Make Great Wives

They will always cook for you

The women always understand that the way to your heart is through your stomach, so they will do their best to whip up their family recipes and make something awesome for you.

In fact, chances are high that this will begin within the first few dates, and she will begin to suggest that her family food tastes better than the usual thought of getting take-away food – these subtle hints will go a long way, and she will be more than happy to make up a hearty meal for you.

If you are a professional chef, it is even better. You can teach her some of your recipes – especially if you plan to keep her for the long term. It will be a win-win for both of you; it provides you an opportunity to show leadership while providing future benefits for longer times.

Kazakh woman cooking in the kitchen

They usually make life easier for you

Even though it is true that a bad woman can destroy your life and a good woman makes it significantly better, you must have control over your own life. A woman cannot make your life good or bad, no matter what her intentions are – unless you allow her to.

Kazakhstan is not exactly designed as a tourist hub alone, so make sure you have your life planned out and organized when you decide to date or marry a Kazakh girl. When you find a good woman, she will help you make your life easier, and increase your positive energy and happiness.

They are serious about love

One of the best aspects about getting to know people from other cultures, aside from the travelling aspect, is the possibilities it gives you in terms of dating the women and finding a long term partner. The same case applies to Kazakh women, and it is not surprising to see why once you understand the norms of the culture – they treat you very well.

In fact, this treatment is far more than you expect, especially if you are from a Western country.

Why is this though?

Well, the concept of dating abroad has more differences compared to dating in a western country. When it comes to girls from Asian countries, it is actually a life goal to get a good guy.

They will do their best to reach this goal, and they will strive to keep him for as long as possible. This makes them different from many girls who grow up in western societies, as they do not like the idea of having one night stands with people they hardly know.

pretty Kazakh woman in a traditional wedding clothes

Tips For Dating & Marrying Kazakh Brides

The woman expects you to take the lead

The point above will be reinforced by this point – you cannot go there when you are not in charge and do not show any form of leadership. In fact, before you are able to take out a girl on a date, you are expected to show your best efforts to impress her.

The good thing is that the culture is very straightforward, so you will now early on if she likes you or not. If she likes you very much, she will resist your initial attempts to kiss her – it is all a test, as she wants to see if you are patient enough and persistent in the face of rejection. Yes, that may seem bizarre, especially when you are used to dating western women, who usually do not have issues with kisses even on a first date.

A Kazakh woman wants to ensure you can take the leadership role, and show no hesitation when you are doing so. This test does not just happen in the beginning of the relationship either; it also occurs throughout the relationship, because she wants to see if you will hold up your end of the bargain. If you are not, she will start to nag, or decide to dump you.

Stay away from Borat references

Borat and Kazakh women

Nothing annoys Kazakh people than foreigners making assumptions because of that movie – even if they saw it. Because of this, skip all attempts to make these jokes, and do not even think about asking the lady about what Borat did in a certain scene of the movie.

She will just take you as an uncultured and stereotypical person who loves making assumptions about things, and that is among the worst impressions you can make when trying to impress them on a date. You cannot learn about a country from a comedy movie, so do not make that impression in her mind.

Take your time

Western culture in dating loves being in a rush about things – first kiss, first one night stand, first date. However, in this country, make sure to take your time before making these moves. Take the time to know her friends, her family, and her as well.

Kazakh women are very family oriented, so when she sees you are willing to find out the people close to her, she will take it as a sign that you value her. That is a major plus point, especially if you are seeking a long term relationship with her.

a typical Kazakh wedding

Intent of marriage

Kazakhs generally view courtship as something serious, so they do not take it lightly. If you are courting someone, they assume it is heading towards marriage, so do not go seeking a relationship if you are into one night stands.

Courtship should also be short periods, as they do not believe in long engagement periods.

Handling the women

When trying to set up meetings with the ladies, just keep one thing in mind – their men will not take kindly to you stepping in and taking their women, and they will not be impressed by the fact that you can speak English fluently. That only means one thing – you have to work harder to get their attention. However, it is worth the effort once you get them.

The best dating apps to use in the country are Russian Cupid and Tinder. However, the country is not as open to internet dating as their neighbors such as Thailand, Indonesia, the Philippines or Vietnam. They are more wary about it, as it is not the usual way of meeting girls – so ideally you should begin the process three or two weeks before you arrive there.

The process of dating is also not the same as what you may be used to – you do not even need lame jokes or games to make girls respond to your Tinder requests. What you require is a straightforward way of observing life, and spades of genuine confidence and curiosity. These women are sharp, and they already know why you are talking to her. If she is intrigued by you, she will message you back.

The Languages

The question of what language to use is a tricky one – they will not be impressed by your English, to say the least. In fact, they have two official languages: Kazakh (a Turkic language) and Russian. Most of the younger people are fluent in both.

Make sure to learn any of these two languages and basic terms to use in both. If she hears you speaking to her in Kazakh, she will be very impressed. However, Russian is even more important, since you can use it in any of the former states of the Soviet Union and eastern European nations.

The reason why she will be impressed if you use any of the two languages is because it already informs her that you respect the culture and the country itself, and that alone is a plus in her book. The contrast is that countries from Southeast Asia do not really care about such norms.

cute Kazakh woman and American man having a date

Meeting Her

The best thing is to be as straightforward with them as possible. They have no problem with blunt honesty, because they do the same. If you ask for her number after establishing a conversation, she will either give it to you (a sign that she likes you) or not (a sign that you should move on).

When asking for a date, give her the chance to decide when and where – do not dictate any of these to her immediately after telling her you would like to meet. She can tell you the time she is available, then you can suggest a place (a casual place that looks nice).

In addition, when it comes to clothes, make sure to dress up – no t-shirts or jeans. The girls will hold themselves to very high standards when meeting you, so do the same for them.

Final thoughts

Kazakh dating and getting a Kazakh bride is very interesting, especially if you are not from the culture itself. You just need to know that you must be strong and ready to handle anything she will tell you. Once you are past this hurdle, she will take care of you, and become less demanding of your time (as long as you take good care of them).

If you are looking for a new love in your life then Kazakhstan is an excellent place to start. With its wide variety of different types of beauties no matter what you are looking for in women you will be able to find it here. Also because Kazakhstan is a little more removed than some of the other international dating locations you will find that as a western man you will be in hot demand here.